May 12th 2016 is likely to be quite an ordinary day, but for those researching, the ‘ordinary’ can often provide extraordinary results. The diaries will be held and used alongside the 1937 documents. We would be very grateful if you could document your May 12th for the future.
Please write as much as you can about what you do, who you meet, what you talk about, what you eat and drink, what you buy or sell, what you are working on, the places you visit, the people you meet, the things you read, see and hear around you, how you are feeling and of course what you yourself think.
Source: 12th May
14. Complain.But do it the right way. Present your beef with an idea for improvement. “Framing things in terms of solutions lessens the focus on the problem and who might be at fault,” says management professor Russell Johnson, coauthor of a study published in the Journal of Applied Psychology. “It evokes pleasant emotions instead of negative ones that cause mental fatigue.”
Just another form of constructive criticism. We want others to give us that kind of critique… so do others. I especially like not focusing on blame. That puts people in defensive mode and very little gets accomplished once they start putting up a wall and can’t hear you any more.
If you’ve never kept a diary, try it for one week. Write a note to yourself every day and see how it goes. If you already keep a diary give it an update or think of something unusual to write about. What haven’t you confessed to the clean, white pages? What are you holding back, even there?
What would you write for the #DearDiary hashtag on Twitter? This was especially clever, I thought.
If you also wrote for (with) the BackWash community network of writers/ columnists join us for a BackWash reunion.
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Spin your Thoughts with a Journal
Do you keep a journal? Sometimes its called a diary, I think thats the old fashioned term. What you write in your journal is up to you. Be creative, rant about your family, chronicle your life, or just spin your thoughts on the web.
Keep your journal in a secret place if you don’t want anyone to read it. Or, if you feel like sharing you can read what you write to friends or even keep your journal online with sites like Blogger. Of course, you can do both. Have an online journal and another secret journal for just yourself.
Journals can be kept in plain notebooks or fancy lined paper books you buy in stationery stores like Hallmark. I like to write with a fine tip black pen but you can experiment with all kinds of pens and colours. Add stickers or stick in clippings from newspapers and magazines. If you really want to put in a lot of clippings have a look at scrapbooking. Thats another form of journaling but there tends to be less writing and more drawings.
There are lots of websites about journaling and scrapbooking. Have a look around and see which appeals to you.
When I started a blog, back in 1998 the early blogs, the very best of them, were all done by creative people who loved words, colours and design. Some of them wanted readers, fame, popularity and most of them got it. Blogging was new. Blogs were inventive, creative, an adventure. No one questioned what Google would like because Google didn’t exist. Blogs were something magical, seeming to exist outside of time and space and even reality (if they knew how to work the code). This was before Blogger, WordPress or any other blog software or client.
I was not a coder, or a programmer and my HTML was very limited. I bought a couple of books to learn HTML. I made progress. I had a rudimentary blog up, but they weren’t really called that yet. You were as likely to call them a web log or an online journal as anything else. Images were new and changed so much about the early web logs. Most people did not put up a site because it was easier to just play on the networks like the IRC (Internet Relay Chat) and the newsgroups (which were eventually moved to Google, becoming the backbone of Google Groups). I joined newsgroups for ASCII artists.
This post will be continued as I feel like writing more.
I write a diary. You could also call it a journal but I prefer diary because that feels connected to history and all the women who have kept a diary through history. Since the early days of writing on paper women have documented their thoughts, their lives and their ideas.
We write with someone in mind, a reader.
It may be a generic reader or you may think of an actual person as you write. I do. The person I write to has changed over the years. I think I wrote to myself when I was a kid. It’s hard to remember and know for sure what I was thinking as I wrote so long ago when my mind was so much less complicated. Then I wrote for the people. I used to think my diary would be read long after I’m gone but it would be used for my biography, whoever took up the task of writing it.
At some point I began to edit myself as I wrote. Having that reader in mind, I started to think about how much I didn’t want the world to know versus how much I wanted to write about everything in my head. Writing a diary is a release, a freedom of thought and a way to organize your emotions too. But, when you think of someone else actually reading all of that… your outlook changes.
Now I try to write just for myself again. Thinking too much about the reader took away too much of what I needed from the whole thing of keeping a diary. So, they all join each other in a big storage box as I run out of space to write. But, I don’t know if anyone will ever read them. At least not until I am long gone and will never know (or hear) what people say about the real me in the pages of those hand written books.
The history of women is in our diaries, our letters and our crafts. I’m so glad to see the history of women being pulled from obscurity.
So few women managed to become a part of recorded history, other than being mentioned as the daughter, wife or sister of some important man. So much of women’s history is lost. What was it really like to be a woman, daughter, wife, Mother or sister in the 1600’s? Those were the days when North America was being discovered by Europeans. I’d really like to know about women in early, ancient and prehistory. In such early days we don’t have history of any people but those who were politically important, enough to have been written about. Of course, in those early days of writing, it was rare for women to be taught to write.
I think about that sometimes. I don’t take writing and being about write for granted. We record our own history, in our own words. That is something of value – our way of having a mark on the world, even if we aren’t sure we really want someone else to read it!
Most people who keep a diary / journal write with an audience in mind. They write to someone, even if they don’t ever plan to let anyone else read what they have written.
Try writing a diary entry about your day, or pick an average sort of day to write about. Choose who your audience is. As you write change your audience to someone else about midway through. How does this change what you write and how you are writing it?
- Create a wish list. Make a catalogue of things you would like for your next birthday, Christmas or other event.
- Take a photo of important information like a list of phone numbers, your Christmas card list, something you need to remember later and so on. Take a photo of your shopping list so you can send it to yourself if you forget the list at home.
- Keep an idea file with photos of things you have seen and would like to make yourself. Or a hairstyle you would like next time you are getting a trim.
- Photograph collections of things. An especially effective way to deal with clutter from collecting too many things. Choose which you really want to keep and photograph the collection before you disperse the rest.
- Play scavenger hunt with friends or family. Photograph something specific in your home or town and challenge others to find the item or place you photographed.
- Turn a photo into a jigsaw puzzle instead of the more traditional greeting card sent for events, holidays and such occasions.
- Become a photojournalist and collect all your photos to tell a story.
- Use your photos for digital scrapbooking and keeping an art journal.
- Choose something interesting or unique and take a photo of a day, create a series. See if you can take a photo a day for a full month, even a full year.
- Take photos in black and white and see how different people, places and things look in shades of grey.
- Photograph collections of things by colour. Display items of all sorts, but all of them are red, for instance.
- Photograph the same place at sunset and again at sunrise, make sure you have the camera positioned in the same spot for both photographs.
- Practice portrait photography using dolls, stuffed animals and other inanimate toys with faces. Pose them and sort them in patterns and try different light and shadows too.
- Photograph reflections in windows, water and anything else creative. Mirrors don’t really count, too easy.
- Try night photography. Make the most of available light or explore the flash features (avoid washed out photos from flash).
- Take selfie photos. Explore new ways to take quick self portraits.
- Photograph people with different facial expressions. Start a collection.
- Create a household inventory. Useful for insurance but a good way to go through what you have and sort it out.
- Take a photo of old photos and other things which will fade with time. A digital photo can keep them fresh, preserved.
- Photograph your luggage when you travel. If anything goes missing you can show just what you had when you started out.
- Play with macro and close up photos. Insects are a good challenge, interesting and not hard to find out in the garden. Flowers and plants are popular for up close pictures too.
- Photograph anything you would like to sell and post the photo to online forums where people are buying.
- Try street photography. If you’re too shy find a good place to people watch and pretend you’re checking your camera while you take the photos.
- Try food photography. Learn how to display fruit, vegetables and home baked goodies for taking great images.
- Take photos by candlelight. Make them romantic or spooky.
- Try urban exploration, taking a photo of something forgotten or derelict in your area.
- Play with focus. Focus on items near and then try the same photo with the focus on something in the background.
- Try catching a water drop and the ripples they create in the standing water.
- Go abstract, looking for interesting shapes, textures and colours to turn into unique images.
- Take a drive and get into landscape and nature photography. Or, find a great spot where you can take a photo of the cityscape for your town/ city.