The problem with joining other sites and networks is the time and energy required to get anything out of being a part of the network. I only have so much quota of social energy and then its gone. I can smile and nod but that takes my time, and patience and kind of belittles me. I’m able to fake having patience to the point where even I believe me. But, I know I really have almost none at all.
Anyway, back to the point, joining social and professional groups, networks and associations. I often think I’d like to be a member. I read the member benefits and think I’d like that. But, in actual practice, it just never works out for me. I lack the energy to be social enough to really get far in a community. A loner type never works out in a community unless they somehow own or founded the community and have others to do the actual social part.
Knowing this about myself I am making a late New Year’s resolution and unjoining several communities and groups which I’m not really gaining anything from. They feel like a drain on me. I can’t support them with the little social energy and patience I have.
What about you? Are you a good socializer? Do you love being part of a community and find your place in one? Or, are you quiet and never seem to quite find the time and energy to really join or do much to take part?
Remember, you have to decide what sustains you and what you sustain. Keep it balanced!